Dating Advice
SMS Tips for Picking
Up the Women of Your Dreams
By Alex Blaze
I don't know if the craze of SMS has caught on
around the world but many, many people use it here in New Zealand
and everyone SMS's each other. I thought it was only right to
share a few tips when replying to girls. These will seem stupid to
some people who are experienced with this type of stuff, and to
others they might find them helpful.
I meet a lot of girls at parties and they always
give me their numbers and I won't ring them, I will message her
just because its so simple. I usually message her a few times
before calling her to ask her to join me somewhere. I can work on
10+ girls at once easily with SMS and these tips are just general
rules while messaging her.
1. Never reply in under 5
minutes
This is one that a lot of males screw up on. By
replying in under 5 minutes you show that you have nothing better
to do than SMS her. If you leave it for 5 minutes plus it shows
that you are busy and you don't have time to reply to her at that
stage. Girls want someone who is fun to be around but males that
are to busy for them drive her crazy as she is used to getting all
the attention. By not replying so suddenly it shows that your
attention is not at her, thus running questions through her
mind.
2. Never end your SMS with 'Love
Casanova'
Well of course, don't use your online nick name
but thats not the point. You should never write anything to do
with love at the end of your message. Think about it, girls meet
guys all the time that they know they can control... by showing
that you have already fallen for her... your screwed, she has
control over you. Especially if its in the first few messages
exchanged with her... or even if you have been messaging her for 3
weeks. Girls will take this two ways:
(a) Your a pushover, she has control over you and
your a sucker
(b) You want to be her friend and you love her in
a friendly way Duh, thats so fucking dumb..
3. Never reply to a message
TWICE
A huge mistake guys make. So you have waited 30
minutes with no reply message from her, what now? And you text her
again? Stop right there. Your ultimately showing that your just
another AFC. Lift your game bro. Reply to her mesage, if she
doesn't reply then dont SMS her again. Shes either:
(a) Playing games with you or,
(b) Not interested.
Most times it will be (a) so just leave it. Next
please.
4. All of a sudden stop SMS'ing
her
This should only be used once but I noticed girls
did this a while back to me. I was an AFC (as you all know, like
most) and girls would all of a sudden stop messaging me. So many
thoughts ran through my mind ...does she not like me? Oh no shes
busy, isn't she? She must be messaging some other guy?
So imagine what goes through her mind if you are
sitting there talking about something while exchanging messages
and then you stop messaging her. You are in control. Everytime you
reply to another text message you are putting her in control, she
can either reply or not reply. Thats why if you stop messaging her
you are in control. I did this to a girl the other day and the
first thing she said to me at a party was 'HOW COME YOU DIDNT
REPLY TO MY MESSAGE?' ...remember everything is about putting you
in control of a situation because ultimately girls like a male
than can lead, an alpha male.
5. Don't message her
everyday
When I am working on a girl I have met at a party
and barely know her I will never message her every day. This shows
you need to talk to her. You don't want this. Ultimately you want
her to be the one who messages/SMS you but I would only ever SMS a
girl once every 4-5 days (this is different to calling
her).
Unless she is interested straight away in you you
can't afford to put the control in her hands. By messaging her
everyday you are showing that she is on your mind everyday ...and
we know we don't want her thinking that.
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Alex Blaze is a Moderator/Admin over at
Alphamaletalk.com. He has helped master the art of picking up
women day after day and is now sharing his tips. You may reach him
over at http://www.Alphamaletalk.com
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