Dating Advice
Little Known Dating
Tips, Secrets, and Dating Mistakes
By John Alanis
I hear it over and over—“It was going so great,
and then she disappeared on me… why? What happened—we were
having such a great time together. I’m tired of this
happening—I want to date sexy women, but I want them to stick
around. Do you have any dating tips for me?”
Yes, I do. Every time I talk to a guy who
tells me this, I discover he’s making the exact same mistakes most
guys do, dating mistakes that kill his chances of successfully
dating sexy women. So, I give him some dating tips to
skyrocket his success with sexy women. Here are the most
common ones:
Dating tip #1: Don’t
date. Yes, that’s right—don’t date. Think about a
traditional “date”—it’s full of pressure, awkwardness, evaluation
and it just plain sucks. What do you do on a “traditional
date?” Dinner, movie, kiss goodnight, she doesn’t return
your calls. Or you have drinks, and try to “make your move,”
and we all know where that ends up. Much better (and
cheaper) to meet for coffee—it’s fun and relaxed with none of the
normal dating expectations.
Dating tip #2: The less you
do and say, the more she’s attracted to you. Most guys try
to impress sexy women, or “lay a rap” on them. Sexy women
have heard it all before. But, if you ask her about herself,
shut up and listen, and display a SMALL degree of interest, she’ll
begin to wonder why you’re not slobbering all over her.
She’ll want to discover more… now you’re a challenge, and sexy
women love challenging guys. Why? Because they rarely meet one.
This is a HUGE dating tip.
Dating tip #3: Be a “naughty
little boy.” Another big dating tip. Remember the “class
clown” in elementary school—the guy who was “cool and funny” all
at the same time? When you’re talking to sexy women, make
unexpected and mischievous comments, the kind that leave them
thinking, “I can’t believe he just said that… but I like
it.” This shows sexy women you’re NOT impressed by their
looks, that you need to see more. This is so different from
what they’re used to they can’t help but be attracted. I cannot
emphasize the importance of this dating tip.
Dating tip #4: Avoid all canned
pick up lines, “laying a rap,” or any type of “acting.” Sexy
women have heard it all before, and as soon as you spout one,
you’re instantly a JAG (just another guy). And JAG’s don’t
get sexy women—remember this dating tip!
Dating tip #5: Sexy women are
approached and hit on 20 to 30 times a day. This is their
world—to get into it, you have to be different from the 20 guys
who’ve already talked to her. (see Dating tip #3 for how to
be different to sexy women).
Dating tip #6: Look out for her
tests. Sexy women (indeed, all women) will test you to see
if you’ll stand up to them. If you can’t stand up to her,
you can’t stand up for her. If she asks you to buy her
things, that’s a test—and a perfect opportunity to be a “naughty
little boy” (see Dating tip #3). Say something like, “What
do I look like an ATM machine? You should buy ME something,
just for the privilege of spending time with me. I like sexy
women who buy me things!” This is said in a playful—yet
firm—manner that lets her know you’re onto her. When you pass
their tests, it drives sexy women wild with desire. Very important
dating tip.
Dating tip #7: Date multiple sexy women at once, and make sure the others
know about it. Sexy women love a man who is attractive to
other sexy women, and will compete to “win you.” (Here’s
another dating tip: for proof of this, read any good romance
novel). If you want to settle down, you can choose one, but
she will always know you’re desired by other sexy women—and in a
strange way, this creates even more attraction for you. This
dating tip really is a secret, but it works very well with sexy
women.
OK, guys, that’s it for this article. Obviously
there are lots of other dating tips, tricks and secrets to put to
use, but if you pay attention to these dating tips, you’ll be a
heckuva lot more successful with sexy women. Now, go re-read
all the dating tips!
On with the fun…
-John Alanis, Dating Tips
Master
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”
Want more dating tips? To discover how to be
successful with sexy women, and for more great dating tips, see
www.womenapproachyou.com.
About The Author
John Alanis is the author of “Secrets of Natural
Attraction: How to Get Desirable, Beautiful Sexy women to
Chase You.” He also publishes a daily “politically incorrect
attraction and dating tips” newsletter that reveals how to get
desirable, beautiful sexy women to approach men for a date first,
no matter your looks, age or income. You can subscribe to
John’s daily “sexy women approach you secrets” by going to
www.womenapproachyou.com. Upon
subscription, John immediately sends you five free “how to get
beautiful, sexy women to approach you!” reports, chock full of
“hidden secrets” dating tips.
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