Dating Advice
How to Impress a
Woman
By Daniel
Okula
The feeling that you need to impress a woman
usually comes along with another feeling: don't screw this up.
Here are some of the signs that a guy is feeling the need to
"impress" the woman that he's talking to:
1) He tries to only say "cool" things, or things
that will "impress" the woman.
2) He acts nervous and stilted during the
conversation... sometimes coming across as "formal".
3) He tries to figure out what the woman wants to
hear.
4) If he says something that the woman doesn't
like, he "back-pedals" and tries to change what he said to suit
the woman.
5) He doesn't say anything "risky", doesn't tease
the woman, and doesn't do anything to upset her.
Surprisingly enough, those are big turn-offs to
women. There are 5 things that you need to remember to impress a
female on a first date. Remember to shower, put on fresh deodorant
and cologne before going on a date. One of the biggest turn-offs
for a woman is when their date smells bad!
1) Keep it casual. Always try to be polite, but
don't come across as being formal. Open the door for her, pull out
her chair so she can sit and push her in. If eating at a
restaurant, ask her how her food is and if her beverage gets low,
make sure to call the waiter/waitress to get her a
refill.
2) Keep talking! I cannot stress this enough.
Awkward silences are terrible on dates. Ask her questions about
herself, to make the female feel like you genuinely care about her
past life. Try not to make it sound like an interrogation though.
Ask things like 'So have you ever been outside of the U.S.' or 'So
where do you work?' Don't ever ask anything personal that could
offend her.
3) If you had a good time on your first date, ask
her if she wants to go back to your place for some coffee. If the
date didn't go so well, or you are getting vibes that she isn't
interested in you, just offer to drop her off at her house. On the
way to her house/your house, ask her if she enjoyed it. If it
sounds like she had a good time, talk about how you enjoyed it and
want to know if she would go out with you again
sometime.
4) (Assuming you are dropping her off at her
house.) Walk her up to the door. On the way there, talk about how
much fun you had with her. Give her a hug good-bye, and walk back
to the car. Never stand at the door waiting to get invited in.
Women in general find this very rude. Being rude to your date is
just about the worst thing you can do.
5) (Assuming you invited her over to your house.)
Walk her inside and go to the kitchen. Make coffee for the both of
you, and talk about yourself and her. Do not make any moves on
her. Most women do not want to have sex on a first date. Before
she leaves, remember to get her number and tell her you will call
her later in the week about maybe going out again
sometime.
Daniel Okula is a writer and a web publisher for
dating articles from http://datingtalk.net. Find
more similar articles on his website.
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