Dating Advice
Do's and Dont's for
Men on Dating Sites
By Leif
Croonquist
Men, learn how to behave on dating and personals
sites.
Being a man and also being the owner of a dating
site myself I have to tell all my fellow men that you are chasing
all the women away. Most of you anyway. Women are keen on how we
behave because most of us all behave the same way on dating sites.
Here is a list of DO's and DON'TS to help keep the women at these
sites and to help you get some responses.
1) DON'T copy and paste 25
exactly same emails and send them off. Women see right through
this and it get's you no-where.Ever wonder why you don't get
responses? That's the first reason. DO send individual emails and
put some thought into contacting women on these dating sites.
REMEMBER: women get 100 emails a day from all sorts of guys. If
your email has no heart then you just go over-looked.
2) DO spell check your email,
women are so turned off by a guy that cannot spell it shows you
are either stupid or just lazy.The same thing goes for grammar.
Take some time to get it right guys and you will get a
response.
3) DON'T choose a nickname that
has a sexual innuendo (unless you are on an adult dating site).
Remember, women usually like men with some class and Roger_69sU
shows that you just want a one night stand. Try something more
clever.
4) DON'T contact single women if
you are married. It is a waste of their time and is an insult. DO
read their profile and see if they are interested in married
men.
5) DON'T lie. DON'T lie. DON'T
lie. Enough said.
6) DO not send women pictures of
your "privates". They will ask if they want to see that. DO send
them a nice picture that shows your sense of humor or
style.
7) DON'T just send an email after
you see their picture. DO read their profile first.
8) DON'T harass women that are
not interested. This ruins the site for everyone and could very
well get you banned from the dating site forever. Many sites now
have reporting features for this very reason. DO treat all others
on the site as though you were talking in person to them. You
would harass them to their face would you?
This is just a small list of some of the
incredibly stupid things guys are doing on Internet dating and
singles sites. Now of course there are some great guys out there
that are honestly looking for a nice date or relationship so any
women reading this, just bear with us, we men are slowing catching
up and figuring it out.
Hope this article helps.
Leif Croonquist is 34 years old and lives in
Portland, Oregon. He is the owner and creator of http://www.cupidsblackbook.com. He
invites you to join if you behave ;)
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