Dating Advice
Dating in the New
Millenium
By Melissa
Seifert
Over the past 20 years the face of dating has gone
through some noticeable changes. Traditional methods of finding a
date would be to rely on friends to play matchmaker or to attend
bars, various different social events and parties. We now rely on
internet service providers to open the doors for romance. Whether
we like it or not, the internet has changed our lives especially
in the way we date and meet people.
Men and women have moved their search for love to
the internet simply because it is the most convenient in terms of
time and money. However, along with this convenience also
comes risk. Sure it takes the pressure off witty meaningful
conversation, but how fun is that? And how do you know if the
person who you are speaking with via “text messaging” actually
looks like their picture or has all the great characteristics that
they say they do? You can’t read their body language to
determine if they are genuine, dull or most importantly how they
flirt, which is primarily the most important interaction you share
with someone you are interested in.
This is why in our striving to make things better,
there is now a combination of the traditional meets cutting
edge. It’s called Speed Dating; this concept takes the
demand of our fast paced society and still gives you the
opportunity to meet someone face to face. It’s a very good
way of meeting a large number of people in a fun environment and
in a condensed period of time. Speed dating may be the new
way to meet but after the first date, you must use traditional
dating methods to make sure that your relationship
grows.
Attending Singles parties in the past was deemed
as an act of disparity but now they are becoming less and less
unconventional. These parties are growing in popularity
simply because we like to connect with people. Nothing beats
a cheerful conversation and there is no better way of learning
about someone than looking them in the eye and asking them a
question.
The one mistake people make is that they want
perfect…and they want it fast. The only way to find your
perfect fit is to take the time and put your self out there as
much as possible. Many people will go to a bar and stand around
waiting to be approached, or take in enough liquid courage so that
they can do the approaching…. bit of a hint…no one finds drunken
people attractive.
Singles parties and speed dating events are for
single people that are sick of standing around bars getting no
where and for those who want to get to know a person face to
face. Every person who comes out to a Single in the City
event is there for the same reason, to meet new people for
friendship or perhaps a future relationship. At these events
you have eliminated 3 potential risks: Are they single? Are they
looking to have a conversation? And Are they open to meeting me?
It is not to say that you NEED to come to these events to meet
someone, it is just simply the smartest way of doing
so.
Singleinthecity.ca is a leading Singles
Organization that provides Speed dating, Singles Events and
Matchmaking in Toronto and neighbouring cities in Southern
Ontario.
About The Author
Melissa is the co-owner of Single in the
City. She has 3 years experience in bringing singles
together through singles events and personal
matchmaking.
melissa@singleinthecity.ca
Visit www.singleinthecity.ca
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